Belong: Choice, Permission, Demand
November 4, 2010
I put your name upon me
so I’d belong to you.
(You may) Hold me (down) and love me (hard)
’cause now I’m yours forever.
Octopus Heart
Learning to love with all my limbs
Learning what I’m here to learn
Life lessons of an uxorious mid-thirties house husband and father,
whose wife's first three words describing him last night were creative, earnest and - I forgot.
Well, always room for improvement.
Dredge Octopus Heart
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Poetry Life and Love
- (About the Poetry)
- 001 abdomen
- 004 worried
- 008 no proof but
- 017 giving and getting
- 023 sworn
- 025 need
- 026 math
- 028 human her
- 029 haiku (passion bound)
- 030 haiku (bright cold)
- 031 haiku (ships and seas)
- 032 haiku (existential scream)
- 033 crow friend
- 034 The Endless Battle
- 035 haiku (when I give)
- 037 Objective World Teeth
- 038 Snow's Cold Season
- 039 haiku (right here right now)
- 040 Fiery She and Electric Me
- 041 passion's aim
- 042 Fear: Self & Other
- 043 Where Does It End?
- 044 Belong: Choice … Demand
- 045 Demand Me: Lyrics for a Song
Stories of Love and Uxory
From the Seafloor
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Cast a Net
Message in a Bottle
OctopusHeart at live dot comThe Seven Seas
Fathoms Below
- Active and Passive Pleasure
- Adequacy of Value Systems
- An Uxorious Frame of Mind
- Better Than 1950
- Bright Line
- Compact and Differentiated
- Compaction: Love, Meaning…
- Contents Map – Seven Seas
- Counterintuitive Interior Control
- Darkness: Perpetually Dissatisfied
- Dealing with Variables
- Defragmentation
- Demand Us to Your Measure
- Differentiation Prediliction
- Electric
- Electric Without Fire
- Emotional Experiential Existence
- Empathy & More (Female Led) Notes
- Enthralled: Right Here Right Now
- Erotic Truth
- Experience and Construct
- FeedBack Need
- Feeling Her Fire
- Female Led Motive She Understands
- Female Led: Empathy, Sublimation
- Fire
- Fire Before Dawn
- Fire on My Mind
- Fire: Vanilla Intentions
- For Spring is For Birds
- Forced to be Happy
- Friend, Lover, Other
- Functional Dynamics
- Gender: Kinked Bent Straightened
- Her Happiness My Hands
- Heroism
- Home
- Human Experiential Relativity
- Interior Compass: Adequacy …
- Life Lessons
- Life's Constructive Criticism
- Love Me Like a Female Object
- Love Symbol Negotiation
- Love Symbol Negotiation, More
- Love's Fate, Love's Destiny
- Love's Worth
- Love’s Gravity (Passion)
- Love’s Interactivity
- Mannequin-ed or Played Play
- Meaning 3: Mental Space Spectrum
- Meaning From Puzzle Pieces
- Meaning of Meaning 1
- Meaning of Meaning 2: Love
- Monsters
- Music and Passion
- Numinous Theory
- Obedience, Intentions & Expectations
- Objective World Teeth
- Off the Grid
- One Last Uxory Differential
- Opinion as Valid Self-Expression
- Passion Addiction
- Passion From Puzzle Pieces
- Passion or Disempowerment
- Passion's Aim
- Passion, Love: Odd Choice
- Peace and Coping
- Peace, Health, Death, Coping
- Perhaps Origin Doesn’t Make Species
- Powerotic
- Recipes for Adequacy
- Reciprocal Intimacy: Empathy…
- Regret: Coping With What's Past
- Self Acceptance
- Self Worth
- Snail's Shell: What I've Learned 1
- Snail's Shell: What I've Learned 2
- Stealth Uxory
- Story: Uxory and Society
- Subjective World Belief
- Symbol Atrophy and Metastasis
- Symbol Frustration
- System Superiority and the ‘Real’
- The Endless Battle
- The Expectation of Symbols
- The Intimacy Of Symbols
- The Meaning of It All
- The Sex Game
- The Soul of Porn
- Thought is Free
- Tween Darkness and Differential
- Uxorious and Numinous
- Uxorious, Female Led, Other
- Uxorious: Easier or Just Right
- Violence and Uxory
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New in the Whirlpool
- 101 the care of you
- My V-Day With Princess Leia and Her Rules
- Practical Dynamics & Meaningful Purpose
- Freedom, Choice & Meaning
- Scrub! Again!
- And Life is Good
- Resolutions
- 047 never more certain
- Power & Passion: Partner/Dynamic Balance
- Agreement & Ambiguity: Self/Other Balance
- Metaphor & Dynamic: ‘Pointing’ Balance
- Symbol & Object: ‘Distance’ Balance
- Sweet to See Your Name
- Hard Choice
- Thank You
Flotsam
Ambiguity Biological Meaning Matrix Communication Compactness Compatibility Control Desire Differentiation Dominance Erotic Truth Female Led For You is For Me Happiness Interior Constructs Interior Experience Intimacy Language Life Lessons Love Love Symbol Negotiation Love Symbols Meaning Mental Frameworks Motivation Numinous Experience Objective Reality Passion Passion's Fire Philosophy Poetry Power Relationship Dynamics Relationships Sex and Sexuality Significance Society Sorts of Uxory stories Subjective Reality Submission Symbol Accuracy Symbol Adequacy Symbols Uxorious ValueFrom the beginning
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