Love’s Interactivity

Love is a high interactive point in life’s biological meaning matrix, and the numinous relationship experience, where ‘for you is for me‘, is I think especially interactive:

Her very worry about my happiness reduces her happiness, and my worry about her happiness reduces my happiness.

And just as the exact thing that decreases her happiness isn’t always the exact thing that decreases my happiness, it’s also true that the exact thing that increases her happiness doesn’t always increase my happiness. Yet it is true that the increase (itself) in her happiness will positively affect my happiness or:

Her very excitement about my happiness increases her happiness, and my excitement about her happiness increases my happiness.