Female Led Motivation She Understands
March 6, 2010
Apropos of an empathetic (female led) progression, when it comes to life lesson two and ‘doing what she wants / what she tells me‘, I am reminded that uxorious men are often compared to children in the female led ‘obedience’ dynamic (see my story ‘Glint‘ for example). Yet one thing my wife does not want (along with having “an employee for a partner“), nor would find fulfilling, is to have the (added) responsibility (in life) of a full grown child for a relationship partner.
While I have gone on about my experiential compaction of erotic truth with numinous experience with fate and destiny (cf. life lesson), the way in which my wife best (symbolically) understands my desire and motivation to do what she wants, asks and tells me to do, is that I want her to not feel any extra weight of duty and obligation, from me or anywhere. I just want her to be happy – and to this end I am willing, have already decided, to do what she wants – so that she can be happy. This motivation says love to her; this motivation is a love symbol she can understand.
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